Differences between parent and child

Sometimes it is difficult to adjust to a child that is your opposite. At times, an introvert parent can feel as if his extrovert child is a joy and a curse, and vice versa. Being different is a wonderful opportunity to teach your child about individual differences and how to accept them. Let your extrovert child know that you as a parent can be drained by too much going on, and that you need breaks to recharge your energy in way you child may not. Tell him that you want to be involved in their activities, but don't hesitate to set limits. Eg, you can set limits for certain activities, or set a limit for the number of sport events to attend. You don't have to feel like a bad parent if you can't keep up with your extrovert child.

Some parents teach their children about extrovert and introvert differences so that they are more aware of their tendencies, as well as other peoplets tendencies.

Marti Olsen, author of The Introvert Advantage says:
"At the dinner table make sure all the children have a turn to talk. Introverts feel uncomfortable about interrupting, so they may not join a family discussion. If they know they are going to have a turn, they can have time to prepare their thoughts. Help the talker learn to wait for their slower-paced brother or sister. Don't let one sibling interrupt or talk for another. It's obvious that no child should be made fun of or humiliated for his or her communication style.

Encourage the other siblings to wait if an introverted child takes longer to give his opinion. Eg: "John needs a minute to think about that, Sam. Let's see what she thinks." By respecting everyone in the family, all of your children will develop stronger interpersonal skills."

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